Changing your name after marriage introduces you and your beloved to the world with unity and can be one of the most exciting parts of getting married. If you plan on changing your name, follow these steps to ensure you comply with the legal process of one of life's biggest moments.

Know Your Name Change Options

Committing to a new name can sometimes feel scarier than committing to your new spouse, but knowing your options can help you make your best decision. Here are a few ideas for where to start.

Keep Your Maiden Name

Keeping your maiden name after marriage is a personal choice and is perfectly legal. Professional identity, personal preference, or a desire to maintain family heritage may influence this decision.

You do not need to take any specific legal steps before your marriage if this is your choice. You simply continue to use your birth name. It might be helpful to communicate your choice clearly in professional settings, especially if you’ve built a career under your maiden name.

Ultimately, choose what feels right for you, regardless of societal norms or expectations. Marriage does not legally bind you to change your name; the choice remains yours.

Adopt Your Spouse's Last Name

A common choice is for one partner to take the last name of the other as a full name change. Discuss your feelings on the matter with your partner. It's a great time to understand family histories and goals for your future.

Hyphenate Two Last Names

Sometimes couples want to keep both names. Hyphenation maintains equality and works particularly well for short names, but don't let the length deter you if it feels right.

Hyphenation fosters a sense of unity and collaboration. It can honor both family histories, ensuring both names are represented. Additionally, it signifies a modern approach to marriage and partnerships, allowing individuals to retain personal identities while forming a new family unit. This choice can empower individuals and promote equality within relationships.

Make a Combination Name

Some may opt to create a new last name by combining parts of both partners' names. Blended elements from both partners can form a portmanteau (e.g., Bloomfield from Bloom and Field), or two names one after the other can form a new one (Smith and Hammer making Hammersmith). Couples may also choose to create a completely new last name altogether.

Consider cultural backgrounds and family traditions when combining names. It's essential for couples to discuss the significance of their last names, considering factors like family legacy, personal identity, and potential impact on children. Ultimately, the goal is to create a name representing their shared commitment while respecting individual histories. Flexibility and open communication are key in finding a solution that feels right for both partners.

Utilize Middle Names

A person might choose to add their spouse's surname as a middle name while retaining their maiden name as their surname. Conversely, you can change your surname to your spouse's while keeping your maiden name as your middle name. Either option can give you the best of both worlds.

Get Your Marriage License

Now that you've decided on your new name, it's time to make it happen. Follow these steps to get a marriage license in Utah.

1. Determine Eligibility: Both parties must be at least 18 years old. Those under 18 need parental consent and a court order.

2. Submit an Application: Couples should visit a county clerk's office together. Check the specific office hours and whether appointments are needed.

3. Bring Identification: Bring valid photo identification, such as a driver’s license, passport, or other proof of identity.

4. Mind the Fees: Expect to pay a marriage license fee, typically ranging from $30 to $50. This fee can vary by county.

5. Complete Form: Fill out the marriage license application form at the county clerk’s office.

6. Receive License: Once the application is processed, you'll receive your marriage license immediately. (You will create your marriage certificate with your ceremony and later issue, file, and sign it.)

7. Enjoy No Waiting Period: Utah has no waiting period, so you can get married right after obtaining the marriage license.

Remember, the license is valid for 30 days, so plan accordingly!

File the Appropriate Paperwork with Government Agencies

You need to file specific paperwork to change a last name in Utah. First, complete the "Petition for Name Change" form, which is available on the Utah State Courts website. This form requires you to provide personal information and the reason for the name change. Keep your marriage certificate handy.

Next, you must file the petition with the district court in your Utah county. Be prepared to pay a filing fee, which varies by county. In some cases, fee waivers may be available for those who qualify. You won't need a court order to change your name for a marriage.

Tell Everyone

Sure, you don't need to tell everyone you bump into, but you must notify relevant agencies and keep legal documents and other vital records current. Update your identification, including passports, IDs, proof of residency, social security, and more, with this checklist:

Department of Public Safety to get a new driver's license or state ID - visit the Driver License Division website
Social Security Administration - you'll receive a new social security card
Department of State to change your passport
Banks, financial institutions, and insurance companies
DMV to change vehicle registration
Employers and school
Family and friends
Health care providers
Landlord or tenants
Creditors
Library
Mortgage companies
Post Office
Public benefits agencies
Registrar of voters - update your voter registration as a couple
State and local taxing authorities
Telephone and other utility companies
Veterans Administration
Proof of citizenship
Any other institution you have regular contact with

Ensure you have certified copies of the name change order and other vital records, which may be required for these updates. Keep your legal documentation organized and handy if you miss any in your first run-through.

Enjoy Your New Beginning

Congratulations are in order—for your union and getting through the paperwork! Filling out forms and updating every credit card, membership, or even social media account you have will be fulfilling and exciting as you and your partner begin your lives together. Be sure to celebrate once you're done and toast to the future your new name represents.

How to Legally Change Your Name in Utah After Marriage